It’s been all over the national news in Australia this week – players for one of the national football teams made a video about a sexual relationship between a rubber chicken and whole chicken from a supermarket, posted it on YouTube, and now are facing public backlash. I decided to check out the video for myself after hearing so many people vehemently defend it as “boys being boys”.

I heard that this may be an edited version of an even more offensive video. Without weighing in on what the media is saying about this video, I will register my concerns:

The video, to me, represents these particular men’s views on women – something to be ‘picked out’ from a meat market, fucked in a bathroom stall, used at convenience, then abused and discarded callously once through with them.

I will grant that probably none of the men involved in the production of this video would outwardly state this as their perception of women. At least, not outside of the locker room. But this video gets at the root of patriarchal male-female relationships and how deeply ingrained misogyny is in society, not just here in Australia, but everywhere. The violence depicted in using and abusing the female chicken in this video comes from a place of hatred.

Additionally, this video portrays a fetishism of violence towards women that is apparent in our ‘rape culture’. Men get off on the idea that they are having an unattainable woman by force. Men get off on subjugating and humiliating women. Just look to the fact that being anally penetrated is often the worst thing a man can think to happen to himself, but the height of sexual attainment of a woman.

So, no, I don’t think it’s sufficient to excuse the video as “boys will be boys” and “you’re just being too politically correct.” Yeah, it’s attitudes they’ve been socialized into, particularly being involved in the hyper-masculine sports subculture, but it’s symptomatic of some very negative qualities about that subculture that I think society should be drawing more attention to.